What is Your "I'll be worthy IF/WHEN..."?

I'm still talking about letting go of the perfectionist part of me that clung to me for a long, long time.

Now, being perfectionist isn't about doing things well or to your highest ability. Those are good things. Because we do that to challenge ourselves and simply do well. Very good!

But perfectionism feeds beautifully into our shame, the shame we might pick up from our families or heap on ourselves. Maybe it is connected to something we did, or someone said to us, or we absorbed from our families.

Perfectionism is about the facade you put out there to the world while you inwardly cower thinking that someone might find out something awful about you.

So what do you do instead?

What we do, is point to some future event or acquisition that will drastically change the here and now. Like the thoughts that say...

• I'm worthy if I lose 20 pounds.
• I'm worthy if I have the right hairstyle, body shape, or clothes.
• I'm worthy if I show the world what a great marriage I have.
• I'm worthy if I can do it all and make it look effortless.
• I'm worthy when I make a certain amount of money.
• And, I can go on. Can you, too? What is on your list?

Let's talk about what can greatly affect those feelings of shame and unworthiness. And start us on the road to transformation, wholeness, and purpose.

See you later!
Denise "Still Working on Leaving That Unworthy Behind" Peterson

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